Disclaimer: I am in no way trying to dissuade/judge/mock anyone in whatever beliefs they have about life and how things turn out. After losing a child, or experiencing some other great pain, one's faith or spirituality is important to have hope in. I'm not trying to crush that hope in anyone.
I merely had a conversation with a friend yesterday, and this question popped up in my head. And I'm not trying to start a grand debate or anything. This was a just a sliver of me.
I doodled it in illustrator (and please overlook grammatical errors).